Oklahoman By Mindset, a Nigerian in My Bones 🤠🇳🇬

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Life is a strange mix of where you’re from and where your heart feels at home. I’m a proud Nigerian by birth — my roots run deep into the red soil of Africa. But somehow, my mind and day-to-day mindset feel more... Oklahoman. 🇳🇬❤️🤠

Strange? Maybe. But this blend — this cultural fusion — has become my unique identity. Let me take you on that journey.

🌍 Born Nigerian, Bred in Hustle

Nigeria teaches you resilience before you can spell it. Growing up, you learn that life won’t hand you anything — you hustle hard, you fall, you rise, and you keep pushing.

  • You learn to laugh even when things are tough

  • You survive with creativity and adaptability

  • Family, food, faith — they're not just values; they’re survival tools

From the buzzing streets of Lagos to the calm voices of the village elders, Nigeria gifted me tenacity, spiritual strength, and a deep sense of identity.

🤠 Why Oklahoman?

I’ve never physically lived in Oklahoma, but mentally — I’ve been there. Why?

Something about the Southern grit, the laid-back cowboy charm, the open skies, and “neighbor-helping-neighbor” spirit pulls at me.

  • I think like an Oklahoman — calm under pressure, rooted in tradition but open to progress.

  • I love that sense of self-reliance and straight talk

  • My dreams align more with that vibe: simple, honest living with big skies and even bigger faith

It’s not where you live, it’s where your soul feels understood.

🔄 The Blend That Makes Me Unique

Some people might think I’m confused — Nigerian but living like an American? But this blend makes me who I am:

  • I greet you “Good afternoon sir” with a bow, but I also say “Howdy” like I was raised on a ranch.

  • I cook jollof rice 🍲 with the same joy as I grill barbecue.

  • I keep my African roots strong while letting my Western mindset push me forward.

That balance helps me connect to more people and navigate the world from a wider perspective.

✨ Living Between Cultures: The Real Story

It’s not always easy. Sometimes:

  • You feel too “Western” for Nigerians

  • Or too “Nigerian” for Western spaces

But I’ve learned not to shrink myself to fit into labels. I’m not here to be “either-or” — I’m “both-and.” I bring the best of both worlds to the table.

That mindset helps in everything I do — from how I approach business, creativity, faith, and daily life.

🛠️ Daily Life in This Dual Identity

Here’s what it looks like, day to day:

  • I pray like my Nigerian mother taught me 🙏

  • I plan my week with a “get it done” Western mentality 💼

  • I hustle like I’m in Lagos, but dream like I’m in Tulsa

Even my content — like this blog — is built from that fusion: real life, cultural depth, and honest storytelling.

💡 What I’ve Learned Living This Way

  1. Never hide your background — it's your superpower

  2. Be proud of what feels like “too much” — culture, accent, ideas — they’re assets

  3. Adapt without erasing yourself — you can blend without losing your flavor

The world doesn’t need more people trying to fit in. It needs people willing to stand out by being real.

🧠 Final Thoughts

"Oklahoman by mindset, Nigerian in my bones" isn’t just a cute phrase.

It’s my truth.
It’s my identity.
And honestly, it’s my freedom.

I’ve stopped trying to fit one mold. I embrace the blend, the cross-cultural flow, and the beauty of being both local and global — heart-first.

🙏 Thanks for Reading!

If you’ve ever felt torn between two worlds — or blessed by both — you’re not alone. Drop a comment, share your story, or just say hi. 👋

Until next time,
Stay bold. Stay blended. Stay visionary.

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